We got married here in early August, which was perfect because it was just before harvest time. The vines were lush with greenery and the grapes were fully grown in and hanging so... we got some beautiful pictures!
Overall, the Pros:
-TWW has a beautiful indoor room for a ceremony or reception, which meant that if we had weather impacting our plans, we had a really nice backup plan. The Wessex Hall was renovated between the day I booked them and our wedding day, and the improvement was amazing!!
-They really do have awesome wine, our guests all loved it, even those who are not big wine fans.
-Jenny was great to work with as our events coordinator. She answered emails promptly and even front loaded a lot of conversations with information I was going to ask about later.
-Great price for the venue when you look at other similar venues and what you're really getting as far as space/service. MUCH cheaper (I'm talking 50% cheaper) than smaller wineries in the northern VA area, where we originally looked
-TWW has a list of approved vendors-you only have to use an approved coordinator and caterer though. I thought it was helpful since were are not from the area and having TWW's opinion of the vendors was helpful.
-The Gabriel Archer Tavern (also on the property) was a great site for our rehearsal dinner. It is more relaxed than TWW and being in the same location was nice for everyone. When I originally asked about this on our first visit, they said the Tavern does not do rehearsal dinners, but my in-laws called 3 months later and booked them (?). Perhaps they had a change in management.
Cons:
-Basically we were promised a couple of things verbally or through email that didn't happen. For instance, we were told we'd be able to rehearse both an outdoor ceremony and the indoor backup plan. On our rehearsal day, there was an event in the Hall so we weren't allowed to conduct an indoor ceremony rehearsal....leaving my coordinators and I very nervous as there was a threat of rain. Additionally, we were promised we'd be able to take pictures in the reserve cellar, but during our picture time, there was a private tasting going on and so we ended up not being allowed to do that either.
-Along the same lines, at times, I didn't feel like my wedding was a priority. At our bridal wine tasting, our event coordinator told us she couldn't make it (the morning of the meeting she says this) and we had already traveled (we live in NoVa) for the meeting. There were no efforts to have another coordinator do our final walk through or guide our wine tasting, so we were left to do the tasting on our own and never got a final walk through. I think if I had been more pushy, this would have turned out differently. I really do think that it was a freak thing though and that that is not a common practice.
-We had to hire a day-of coordinator in order to have our wedding at TWW (off of the approved list, many of whom were way over our budget). In the end, I liked having a coordinator on the day of, but I didn't like the idea that I was forced to have one and pay an extra $1000 (on the cheap side) in order to be able to have my wedding at TWW.