About this vendor
At Wed By Norm, every ceremony is crafted with care, heart, and intention. I’m Norman I. Graham, a professional and licensed wedding officiant serving couples across New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, and beyond for destination weddings. Whether your celebration is elegant, intimate, or joyfully unconventional, I specialize in creating ceremonies that truly feel like you — authentic, memorable, and filled with meaning.
Couples often describe me as calm, professional, and personable, with a genuine approach that makes the process simple and enjoyable. From our first conversation to your wedding day, I prioritize collaboration — making sure your voices are heard and your vision comes to life beautifully.
In addition to officiating, I offer:
Virtual or In-Person Consultations for your convenience
Guidance with the Marriage License Process, so nothing is left to chance
Customized Ceremony Scripts tailored to your story, tone, and preferences
Referrals for Trusted Wedding Vendors to help complete your dream team
Rehearsal Coordination (if applicable), ensuring a smooth and stress-free ceremony day
Beyond the “I do,” I also provide premarital and postmarital coaching, designed to help couples strengthen communication, connection, and clarity as they begin their marriage journey.
I’m honored to work with couples from all backgrounds — including interfaith, multicultural, LGBTQ+, and nontraditional unions — and I approach every ceremony with inclusivity, respect, and joy.
When you choose Wed By Norm, you’re not just booking an officiant. You’re gaining a partner who listens, guides, and celebrates with you every step of the way. Together, we’ll create a ceremony that’s legally sound, emotionally rich, and unforgettable — one that truly captures the love story you’ve built and the future you’re stepping into.
Details
Business Attributes
- Black-owned Business
Ceremony Types
- Civil Union
- Commitment Ceremony
- Elopement
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
- Baha'i Faith
- Buddhist
- Christian
- Catholic
- Mormon
- Orthodox
Wedding Activities
- After The Wedding
- Newlywed Life
- Premarital Counseling
- Wedding
- Ceremony
Awards and Affiliations
3-Time 'Best of Weddings'
2026.2025.2024.
Best of Weddings
The Knot independently assesses vendors for this award—it’s never self-reported. We base it on firsthand experiences from real couples and guests, and they must have a 4.5-star average across 7+ reviews in the qualifying year.
Popular with couples like you
Check out our featured vendors.
Reviews
Your trust is our goal. Our community relies on honest reviews to help
you make those big decisions with ease.
5
out of 5.053 reviews
Review photos
Showing slide number 1 out of 5
We could not have asked for a better officiant for our wedding! From the very beginning, they were professional, kind, and incredibly thoughtful. Norman took the time to really get...
to know us as a couple, and it showed in the way they personalized our ceremony. Every word felt meaningful and true to our story it was heartfelt, genuine, and so beautifully done.
Our guests could not stop raving about how touching and memorable the ceremony was. The perfect balance of warmth, joy, and sincerity made the moment unforgettable. They made us feel at ease on such an emotional day, and we are so grateful for the care and love they put into making our ceremony so special.
If you are looking for an officiant who is not only professional but also deeply invested in making your day magical, look no further. Truly a wonderful experience from start to finish!
We cannot recommend Wed By Norm enough! From the very beginning, Norman was kind, professional, and incredibly supportive throughout our wedding journey. He took the time to have m...
ultiple conversations with us about our vows, emotions, wedding jitters, and overall planning, which made us feel comfortable, heard, and genuinely cared for.
On our wedding day, he arrived promptly and even offered to help with anything we needed before the ceremony began. His calm presence helped ease our nerves and made the entire experience feel seamless and special.
If I could do it all over again, I absolutely would, and I would choose Wed By Norm every single time. Thank you, Norman, for your kindness, patience, and dedication. You played such an important role in making our day unforgettable, and we truly cannot thank you enough!
❤️ Highly recommend to any couple looking for an officiant who is compassionate, reliable, and genuinely invested in making your day perfect.
Working as the DJ at a Virginia wedding with Wed By Norm was a great experience. He was professional, communicative, and easy to work with—and when the reception needed an MC, he j...
umped in without missing a beat, apparently adding another job title on the fly! He kept the energy flowing and handled the unexpected like a pro. If you’re looking for a wedding officiant who travels and who can connect with a crowd and roll with the moment, Wed By Norm is a great choice.
I was a guest at a Virginia wedding where Wed By Norm officiated, and he really made the ceremony feel like a special part of the day instead of just something to get through. He w...
as personable, funny, and knew how to keep everyone engaged while still making the couple feel like the focus. You could tell he took the time to understand their story, and that made the ceremony feel genuine and personal. If you’re searching for a wedding officiant in Virginia who brings great energy and makes the ceremony memorable, I’d definitely recommend Wed By Norm.
We are thankful we chose Norman to lead our wedding ceremony as our officiant. He went above and beyond not only on the day of, but also during our meetings leading up to the big d...
ay. Choose Norman for a charismatic and personable officiant who will do whatever it takes to make your special day perfect. Norman proactively inspected our ceremony space hours before the ceremony and quickly bought bug repellent spray to ensure our guests would be comfortable. Norman also doubles as an amazing party guest. He attended our rehearsal dinner and reception socializing with all our friends and family. And even after the big day, Norman is still there for you. He is a great resource for assisting in getting your marriage license and certificate. Choosing Norman was one of the best decisions we made during our wedding planning process as he really helped our day come together as imagined.
Norman was absolutely AMAZING at the Singleton wedding! He served as both the officiant and emcee, and truly helped make the entire day unforgettable. From the ceremony through the...
reception, he was professional, personable, funny, and brought such a natural energy to every moment.
As the officiant, Norman delivered a beautiful ceremony. He has an incredible voice and presence, and the way he spoke made everything feel meaningful, personal, and genuine. His delivery and flow were perfect, and he knew exactly when to bring in a little humor while still keeping the importance of the moment.
As the emcee, he was just as incredible. He kept the reception flowing seamlessly, made great announcements, kept everyone engaged, and knew how to read the room and maintain the energy throughout the night. Nothing ever felt awkward, rushed, or forced.
Having one person who could transition so effortlessly from officiating the ceremony to leading the reception was amazing. If you’re looking for someone who is professional, charismatic, funny, well-spoken, and genuinely great at what he does, I highly recommend Norman and Wed By Norm. He played such a big part in making the Singleton wedding an incredible experience!
He is exceptional and very professional. He will make every occassion feel special
We had an absolutely amazing experience with Wed by Norm! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ From start to finish, the service was professional, seamless, and personal. Norm made us feel comfortable, supp...
orted, and truly celebrated on such an important day. We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant and would highly recommend Wed by Norm to any couple looking for exceptional service!
We had an amazing experience with Wed by Norm and couldn’t have asked for a better officiant for our wedding!
Norm was punctual, professional, flexible, personable, and incredi...
bly easy to work with from beginning to end. He made the entire process feel simple and stress-free, while still taking the time to make sure our ceremony felt personal and meaningful to us.
On our wedding day, Norm arrived on time, prepared, and ready to go. His warm personality and professionalism immediately put us at ease. He made the ceremony feel natural, heartfelt, and genuine, and his ability to connect with us made it feel like we were being married by someone who truly cared about our moment.
We especially appreciated how accommodating and flexible he was throughout the process. He communicated well, paid attention to the details, and helped everything flow smoothly.
If you’re looking for someone who is reliable, professional, personable, and genuinely committed to making your ceremony special, we highly recommend Wed by Norm. Thank you, Norm, for being part of such an important day in our lives. Definitely a 5-star experience!
I found Norman on the wedding website called The Knot. He was so professional and kind from our very first meeting, to all the way through to ceremony. He was attentive and very kn...
owledgeable about his service. His outstanding service was the icing on our cake for us. I would absolutely recommend his service to anyone who needs a great officiant for their special day.
Was truly an amazing experience from start to finish. Everything was handled with care, professionalism, and so much attention to detail. He made such a special day even more memor...
able, definitely one no one will ever forget. I highly recommend him to anyone looking for high-quality work!
Norman was a wonderful officiant! He added extra spunk to the ceremony and really livened up the guest and got them really engaged in the ceremony! You could tell that he really to...
ok time to get to know the couple and curate the perfect ceremony that painted the couple’s love story for the guests. I would highly recommend him for an unforgettable experience that you and your guests will remember and cherish for a lifetime!
I’ve known Norman (and the newlyweds) for years, and watching him lead the ceremony was truly amazing. I had the pleasure of being a bridesmaid, and they honestly couldn’t have pic...
ked a better officiant! He made everything feel so warm and personal, heartfelt, and even a little fun! He gave us smiles, he gave us laughs, and he perfectly captured the couple’s personalities.
Weddings can be hectic and stressful, but he made sure that on the big day they were calm, confident, and completely at ease in front of everyone. It was very natural, very organic, and I loved that. The ceremony flowed beautifully, and so many of us were smiling, laughing, and even tearing up at the perfect moments. The bridesmaids cried, the groomsmen cried, we all cried. But it was all happy tears, such a beautiful thing to be apart of! We all had such a great time, and you could just tell how much thought and care he put into making their day special.
If you want someone who’s professional, warm, and makes the whole experience unforgettable, someone who’s going to reflect on your personalities and your journey as a couple, and someone to really move and make your guests feel that love in the atmosphere, Norman is the man to call! You surely won’t regret it.
Having Norman as our officiant was one of the best things that happened for our wedding! Leading up to the day, he was very helpful as we navigated filing for our marriage license ...
and writing our vows. He crafted a beautiful and personal ceremony for us, and delivered it flawlessly with poise, care, and love. Our friends and family also enjoyed talking and dancing with him, mistaking him for one of our close relatives! We're so glad we had Norm on our special day.
I am delighted to recommend Norman Graham of Wed by Norman as an outstanding and highly personable wedding officiant. Norman was an integral part of our wedding experience, and we ...
are grateful for the expertise he brought to our day.
Working with Norman was a truly positive experience. He was a great collaborator who offered support beyond simply officiating, providing valuable upfront counseling and wedding advice. Furthermore, his guidance was essential in helping us craft and refine our vows, ensuring our ceremony was both authentic and stress-free.
On the day of the event, Norman delivered a ceremony that was perfectly balanced. He made the service fun and genuinely engaging, masterfully keeping our guests entertained and attentive throughout. His delivery was warm, professional and entirely focused on celebrating us as a couple.
We wholeheartedly recommend Norman for any couple seeking an officiant who truly listens to their needs. He has a unique talent for tailoring the ceremony to the couple's personality, ensuring the day is fun and memorable for everyone involved.
Great officiant! He was very engaging with the couple and the audience. Everything ran smooth and was done decent and in order. Would definitely recommend him if you’re in need of ...
an officiant.
Norman performed beautifully. He gave such a personable feel to the ceremony and kept the audience entertained from start to finish. I loved his little personalized touches to the ...
ceremony that really shows he goes above and beyond to get to know the couple beforehand.
Phenomenal officiant. Not only did he nail our ceremony, but he had such a great time that he ended up staying for the reception and partying with us! He was a treasure. He took th...
e time to get to know us both and tailored our ceremony to fit us perfectly - including all the details he learned about us. If you want a romantic, special and personal ceremony, with humor and just overall great vibes, please use Norm. 100/10.
When you want somebody to handle your wedding like a top priority I would used WedbyNorm. I can’t imagine working with a different officiant!
Norman was a true professional. Astute at all aspects of the ceremonial process. Helpfull in both pre-ceremony setup and reception activities. Get Norm for you big day if you want ...
an amazing officiant.
Norm is an amazing officiant he gave an amazing service while also being well-spoken and humorous and he also gave details about the couples past which gave an even more special se...
rvice i would highly recommend him to any couples looking for a good officiant
Norman was exceptional! He had such a great speech and created such a beautiful moment to welcome to newlyweds.
Norman graham. God. I thank God for leading me to him.. I was extremely nervous through this whole process But his gentle soul was able to execute it for me. I mean he was just ver...
y spot on with everything. My family could be a little difficult But his leadership was able to tackle it And I am truly happy and thankful to have met him
Norman went above and beyond for our wedding this past weekend (June 2025). He took the time to get to know us and write a script that perfectly matched our relationship. It was sw...
eet, lighthearted, and funny!
We had the privilege of having Norman officiate my friends’ wedding, and couldn’t have asked for a more beautiful experience.
From start to finish, everything was handled with pr...
ofessionalism, organization, and a true investment in making the ceremony personal and memorable. Norman took the time to understand the unique love story and brought a thoughtful touch that made the day feel truly special.
I highly recommend to anyone looking for an officiant who will bring your vision to life with care and skill!
Norman was the officiant at my cousin’s wedding and he was nothing short of amazing. He was very personable and added a great touch to the ceremony. He was extremely professional, ...
on time & flexible. I would definitely recommend him to any future bride.
Norman was absolutely incredible! It was so professional and kind in the months leading up to our wedding and was always available to answer questions! On the wedding day he made u...
s feel so comfortable and helped us stay calm during our cermony! Highly recommend Norman for your wedding !!! 🤍🤍
Not enough praises for Norman’s mentorship program! I truly enjoyed my 8 weeks, identified areas for improvements and have an actionable plan. Each week, I felt super comfortable, ...
supported, and heard. Norman gave great suggestions I hadn’t considered and kept me accountable to my goals all while pouring into me and laughing with me. Great experience! Proud of you
Norman was so professional and the service was beautiful and amazing!!!!!
I recently attended a wedding where Norman was the officiant and he definitely made the moment very memorable not just for the couple but for the guest as well. He was professional...
, funny and very well spoken. I would definitely recommend him for your upcoming wedding!
I had the pleasure of attending Serne & Malik’s wedding, where Norman Graham was the officiant. He delivered a truly memorable and touching ceremony. The way Mr. Graham spoke, it w...
as clear that he had a deep understanding of the couple's journey and crafted the ceremony to reflect their unconditional love for one another. He also engaged the audience by including a real time selfie making it a standout part of the celebration. It was a ceremony that truly felt personal and special. I highly recommend WedByNorm to anyone looking for an officiant who brings warmth, energy, humor, and sincerity to their wedding day.
Norman did an amazing job and is a great officiant!! He’s organized, professional and genuine. He adds a heartwarming touch to an already special day, highly recommend!!!
Literally the best! He is so detailed and thorough in his work. He is someone you can always connect with, imagine your best friend officiating your wedding!
Norman from Wed by Norman was an outstanding officiant. He conducted an excellent rehearsal and arrived on time for the ceremony. Going above and beyond, he even brought Liquid IVs...
for the wedding party to prevent hangovers. His exceptional service makes him the best officiant I’ve worked with as a wedding coordinator. I highly recommend him!
Norman did a phenomenal job as our officiant. He listened to every need we wanted for our ceremony. Very professional, reliable and provided excellent service to help my husband an...
d I remain stress free during the licensing process. I will be sending every couple his way. Thank you again!
Amazing, on time. Very professional and a great time. He was such a wonderful officiant. Book him!
Thank goodness for Norman! We dropped our previous wedding officiant (barely a month before our wedding) and were panicking if we would be able to find a replacement who incorporat...
ed what we wanted for our ceremony. My amazing cousin referred Norman and he was able to make a last min appt with me (the next day!). It was kismet because myself and my partner instantly knew Norman understood what we wanted for our ceremony and presented beautifully. So much so that I was adamant that he stayed for the rest of the ceremony and party with us. 😂 I am referring him to any one who’s planning on eloping/getting married. He will also be there for our vow renewal. 🤎
Norman was such an awesome officiant at my friend’s wedding ceremony. He managed to capture their love with the kindest words, as if he had known them for years! Outdoor summer wed...
dings can be brutally hot, but he remained professional and made the crowd laugh quite a few times. You will not regret booking him for your wedding!
Norman officiated our Ten Year Vow Renewal, and he is very professional, courteous, and very organized. Norman traveled from New Jersey to Colorado, to officiate and celebrate wit...
h us, and exceeded our expectations. He was so prompt in responding to our emails, questions, and gave us some great feedback while planning our ceremony. We received SO many comments on how beautiful our ceremony was, the words were meaningful, and sincere. Thank you, Norman!
I recently attended a lovely, 10 year vow renewal, facilitated by Norman. This ceremony included traditional, cultural aspects of the couple, which Norman tastefully embraced. In h...
is delivery of the service, you could tell he took time to understand the couple’s story and dynamics, in advance of the ceremony. If you’re looking for a wedding officiant or one to facilitate a vow renewal, I’d highly recommend Norman.
Norman was a fantastic officiant! He was incredibly professional and flexible when it came to our ceremony script. We wanted something fun and light, while still thoughtful and lov...
ely. Norm accomplished that and more! He was incredibly accommodating when we asked to add something silly to the ceremony and he was very go with the flow. Such a personable and warm person. We loved working with Norm!
I attended a wedding at the Grain House located in Basking Ridge New Jersey and Norm did an outstanding job. His balance of professionalism, compassion, and being efficient helped ...
make this beautiful couples dream come true. I highly recommend Norm
Norman had a personality and aura that is calming, fun, humorous, and personable and his passion in presiding over the couple’s union transcends well through his ceremony script. H...
is humor was refreshing and appropriate in setting a calming, but fun tone for the couple who naturally were a bit nervous. As an attendee of the wedding, and friend of the bride, It was truly a joyful experience having Norman as the wedding officiant and I already told him, when it’s my turn to walk down the aisle, HE’S MY GUY!! 10/10 would recommend!
Definitely a great wedding officiant!!! On time helpful & reliable the day of the wedding. And when he speaks you can feel the love in the building. I highly recommend Mr Graham.
I was a maid of honor at a wedding Norman officiated in Mexico, his first international wedding. Norman engaged with the bride and groom throughout the entire trip, and watching hi...
m during the ceremony was amazing. He was professional, caring, and patient during the ceremony while also keeping the guests engaged and providing an easy atmosphere. My boyfriend has hired him for our wedding before he's even proposed lol. Norman is a pleasure to work with and I would recommend him to anyone looking for an amazing wedding experience.
His voice, presence and words were moving and captivated the crowd. His talent and professionalism is one to admire and continue in his service. Please book now !!
Norm was amazing to work with. He made sure he took our experiences we shared with him and made our ceremony so much more special and personal. At the last minute my husband and I...
decided to surprise our families with the news that we're expecting and without hesitation he was able to incorporate it into our ceremony script. He flew to Cancun to officiate our ceremony and was able to politely tell the onsite officiant the resort offered that he was already taking care of matters. Norm was pleasant and organized. He made sure to make himself available to us. In the days leading up to the wedding he took time to spend with us and our families. Norm was amazing.. we are glad we had the opportunity to work with him.
I’ve attended a wedding officiated by Norm. It was engaging and entertaining! Norm was able to keep the crowds attention while running through the ceremony smoothly 10/10 would rec...
ommend!
Norman was a pleasure to work with during a wedding at our venue! You can truly tell that he cares about his couples and giving them a memorable heartfelt ceremony. He arrived earl...
y and was prepared and ready to go even before the event started. He worked well with our staff and ensured that the couple’s ceremony was a day they will never forget! We loved working with Norman and would definitely recommend him for all your special occasions! -- The Mansion on Main Street Team
Norman was amazing, very detailed and professional. He gave us the upmost confidence that he would capture our love story and he didn’t disappoint! Book him today!!
Contact
PA, NJ, NY, CT, RI
Wed By Norm's photos