My husband and I selected the tides for location; we planned the wedding from Virginia and Montana. Things went well in early planning though I had to make multiple calls to get re...sponses in the spring, which was nerve wracking. Nearing the wedding month, I was worried due to turnover in the staff and my info being passed off from one person to another. I also saw some lackluster reviews of summer weddings there online.
But, I have to say the new manager, Jeffrey, stepped in and got things on the right path. He helped us do the last minute details and was there all evening to see the wedding through. Hope was super helpful with the linens.
The perk of the Tides is the setting. Beautiful beach. And it did not disappoint.
The food was good, especially for an O/NCO club. And the wine Jeffrey recommended was stellar. I'm told the cocktails were good, though I didn't get any!
I'd give five stars except three things. First: a professional bartender would be a good touch. We were holding the dinner toast because the bar was backed up, and we had expressed concern for a backed up bar in planning and been reassured. The groom had to wait for beer. We bought Mai tais, Mojitos Pinot Noir, beer and champagne. So we should have had a bartender who staged a few drinks so folks wouldn't be waiting.
The second issue is related. We paid gratuity as part of our contract. But someone put a tip jar out at the bar. Foul. We should have been asked. And frankly, no jar should be there for a bartender making people wait. That rubbed us wrong as we paid for the service already.
Finally, when the previous wedding broke from the deck and my bridesmaids and groomsmen were cleared to set up ours, a bunch of previous wedding goers hung out at the base of the deck smoking. My groom had to continually shoo them. I think the Tides staff can be more mindful of this. Last thing you want wafting around as guests arrive is Billy Bob's cigarette butt embers.
That said, Jeffrey was accommodating in ensuring set up of the deck and decorative arch, flower storage, etc.
All things considered, we were pleased.