Piccadilly's Public House and Restaurant

both turned into 2+ hours of me finding out every detail of her life from teenage years up. This included stories of abuse which led to her sobbing at both meetings. Very awkward and uncomfortable.. not really what a soon to be bride wants to hear about while planning a joyous occasion.. She never asked me anything about myself and only about 15 min were spent talking about my upcoming event (food, price, etc..). She told me 2 weeks prior she would have everything set up at 10:30 am. I was worried about this, and she assured me there was absolutely NOTHING to worry about.. I needed to decorate with my mom, and sister, and that gave us the perfect amount of time to do so and then go get ready for my ceremony. I texted her at 9:30 am as a reminder.. nothing..texted again.. nothing.. arrived at 10:45.. NOTHING WAS SET UP AND IT WAS A MESS FROM THE EVENT THE NIGHT BEFORE. Called and texted multiple time with no answer. We had to set all the tables/chairs ourselves which were super heavy, clean up, and then wait around for her. She was two and a half hours late. We were finally able to put clean linens on, and then decorate once she arrived around 1 PM (which was past the time we needed to leave) Unfortunately not only was I late to my own wedding, I missed out on being able to get the photographer to capture photos of myself and my sister getting ready together at the venue.. she had had to stay at the Airbnb to take a shower, get ready quickly, and arrived right before the ceremony. That is something i will never get over. I was also rushed with my hair and makeup so didn't have time to do the look I had planned for months. You cannot get those moments back. Missing that moment with my sister broke my heart. She lives in NM and I didn't have a wedding party so It was really important to me to have my sister there. I was also not able to help set up the arch at my venue and when i walked down the aisle I noticed it was missing the terracotta fabric that really set it off. My dad didnt see it when he brought it in. I Spent 5 hours decorating that arch with my sister the night before, and without the cloth it blended right into the back ground in the photos. I blame her for this as well. I had no time to set it up with my sister which is what we had planned on doing.. and I couldn't even go check everything before getting my dress on because I was so late. I will remember that when I look at the photos i spend so much money on for the rest of my life. After we were married we went to the pub and I noticed that for some weird reason she took it upon herself to rearrange some of the decor.. my pumpkins which I had placed exactly how I wanted them, had been swapped out, and some were placed over by the buffet. might not seem like a big deal but my sister and I spent a lot of time at the market selecting pumpkins to stack and my favorite pumpkin that was in the middle was removed and put out of sight on the floor by the Buffet.. Weird.. there was no reason for that. I had also texted her before the reception telling her to make sure she put $1,000 on the bar tab for beer and wine, and found out 2/3 of the way through she hadn't told the bar tenders and people had to pay for drinks all night. Do not put your trust in this woman. There’s more but this was long enough.