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Choose Love Weddings

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5 out of 5 stars and 9 reviews
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San Diego and surrounding cities
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We cannot say enough amazing things about Amy and Caroline!  From the moment we started working with them, they made us feel comfortable, supported, and genuinely excited about our special day. They brought so much warmth, professionalism, and love to our ceremony, and helped make one of the most important moments of our lives truly unforgettable. Our wedding ceremony was beautiful, personal, and everything we could have hoped for. You could feel the care and thought they put into making our day special, and that meant the world to us. They helped create a moment that felt authentic to us as a couple, and we will always be grateful for the role they played in the beginning of our marriage. If you are looking for officiants who genuinely care about their couples(especially the LGBTQ+community) , communicate well, and help make your wedding day feel magical, look no further! We would recommend them a thousand times over to anyone getting married. Thank you for being part of our love story and helping us create memories we will cherish for the rest of our lives! 
Detty �.
5.0
Amy and Caroline were absolute delights to work with. We were unsure about the microphone needs for our ceremony given the venue/small size of our wedding, they troubleshooted on their own and figured out exactly what would work best for the space/group once they arrived. Amy then did an amazing job officiating, she is a total professional - great speaker, warm energy. Caroline also kindly handled our ceremony music to a tee. We could not recommend working with Amy and Caroline more for your wedding officiant needs!
Diana R.
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About this vendor

Vendor
Amy Bouvin, LCSW, CST
WEDDING OFFICIANT
Typically responds within 24h
Choose Love Weddings is a wedding officiant business in San Diego, CA, that celebrates the diversity of love in all its forms. Happily married duo Amy Bouvin and Caroline Christian will work with you to ensure your wedding ceremony is as memorable for you as it is for your guests. Your wedding is all about the way you want to feel. Choose Love believes the ceremony sets the tone for it all! The team at Choose Love Weddings aims to create inclusive and affirming wedding experiences for each relationship they work alongside, but what truly sets them apart is their commitment to community. They center the LGBTQ+ experience by offering discounts directly to relationships within that community. For allies using Choose Love, those discounts are transformed into donations to LGBTQ+ supportive organizations. Each wedding package at Choose Love Weddings offers a private consultation where you will discuss your plans for the ceremony and reception to help choose the package that feels right. Choose Love Weddings also offers additional relationship coaching sessions as part of the Tier 3 package to help guide you and your partner toward a secure and connected marriage! Whether you want a simple, understated ceremony or a lavish gathering where you design every detail, Amy and Caroline are ready to tailor everything to match your style and bring your dreams to life!
LGBTQ+-owned and Woman-owned Business
2+ years in business
Speaks English, Spanish
Small team (2-10 members)
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Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Non-Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Planning
Se Habla Español
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Secular
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Premarital Counseling
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Meet the team
  • Vendor
    Amy Bouvin, LCSW, CST
    Wedding Officiant
    Amy (she/her) is a Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Clinical Social Worker who supports her clients through relationships in search of deepening their love and connection. She is a romantic at heart, which is what drew her to officiating. Amy is passionate about creating thoughtfully designed experiences that honor each couple's unique, authentic love.
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Choose Love Weddings' officiant team (Amy and Caroline) provided warm, professional, and deeply personal ceremonies. They were organized, communicative, handled logistics (music/mics), and respectfully honored names, cultures, and LGBTQ+ couples. Couples praised their authenticity, thoughtfulness, and highly recommend them for inclusive, memorable ceremonies.
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We couldn’t have dreamed up a more perfect officiant than Amy from Choose Love Weddings. From our first conversation, Amy’s approach made us feel so comfortable. She took the time ...
to truly understand our story, values, and vision. She crafted a ceremony that was not only heart-felt and profoundly personal but also filled with warmth, love, and a touch of humor that allowed everyone to experience the depth of the moment. Amy’s presence on our wedding day was calming, reassuring, and full of joy. She effortlessly created an inclusive and welcoming space, ensuring that our love was celebrated in the most authentic way possible. Every one of our guests raved about how beautiful and moving the ceremony was, and we couldn’t agree more! If you’re looking for an officiant who is kind, thoughtful, and passionate about celebrating love in all its forms, book Choose Love Weddings. Amy, we are forever grateful!
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We cannot say enough amazing things about Amy and Caroline!  From the moment we started working with them, they made us feel comfortable, supported, and genuinely excited about our...
special day. They brought so much warmth, professionalism, and love to our ceremony, and helped make one of the most important moments of our lives truly unforgettable. Our wedding ceremony was beautiful, personal, and everything we could have hoped for. You could feel the care and thought they put into making our day special, and that meant the world to us. They helped create a moment that felt authentic to us as a couple, and we will always be grateful for the role they played in the beginning of our marriage. If you are looking for officiants who genuinely care about their couples(especially the LGBTQ+community) , communicate well, and help make your wedding day feel magical, look no further! We would recommend them a thousand times over to anyone getting married. Thank you for being part of our love story and helping us create memories we will cherish for the rest of our lives! 
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Amy and Caroline were absolute delights to work with. We were unsure about the microphone needs for our ceremony given the venue/small size of our wedding, they troubleshooted on t...
heir own and figured out exactly what would work best for the space/group once they arrived. Amy then did an amazing job officiating, she is a total professional - great speaker, warm energy. Caroline also kindly handled our ceremony music to a tee. We could not recommend working with Amy and Caroline more for your wedding officiant needs!
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Working with Amy and Caroline for our wedding day was truly such a wonderful experience. They were both incredibly accommodating and did an amazing job guiding us through the entir...
e wedding ceremony process, which we were especially grateful for. To be completely honest, my husband and I felt pretty lost when it came to even knowing where to start with finding the right person or team to officiate our wedding. We were so thankful when my sister came across Amy and Caroline from Choose Love Weddings, because from the very beginning, everything just clicked. We were able to connect with them only a couple of months ahead of our wedding date, and they absolutely knocked it out of the park. Beyond their professionalism, Amy and Caroline genuinely took their role to heart. They led such meaningful, thoughtful conversations with us that helped shape the flow and tone of our ceremony in a way that felt deeply personal and authentic. Amy and Caroline are truly some of the kindest people — you can immediately tell that they love love, in all its forms. We feel so lucky to have worked with them on such an important day in our lives and cannot recommend Choose Love Weddings enough to any couple looking for an officiant team that truly cares.
Response from Choose Love Weddings
Richelle, this is so sweet! Thank you for sharing such kind words! We were so honored to w...
ork with you and Jim and we truly had so much fun. We are so glad you found us! Wishing you both so much love and happiness in this next chapter.
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Amy and Caroline were wonderful officiants. The entire process of working with them was amazing. Throughout both of our prep calls they were professional and showed a genuine inter...
est in our story. The speech they prepared for our ceremony was succinct and phenomenal - a true celebration of queer joy and absolutely one of the best highlights of our wedding! I would recommend Choose Love Weddings to anyone looking for an officiant. 
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We had the pleasure to have Amy as our officiant at our wedding a couple weekends ago, and we were so grateful for the support and knowledge that Amy & Caroline provided us along t...
he way during the wedding preparation. They are both sweet, helpful, and organized. We love their mission to give back to the queer community and how respectful they are to different cultures. Amy was attentive in making sure to pronounce our names correctly and that we are comfortable with the queer love statement. We cannot recommend enough for Amy & Caroline to be your officiant!
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Amy was everything you could want in a wedding officiant. She was attentive, professional, and had great energy! She honored our wishes for how we wanted our ceremony to look and f...
eel, and she made sure things ran smoothly from start to finish. We felt so special and loved throughout our ceremony, and Amy was a huge part of making that happen!
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My husband and I chose Choose Love Weddings as our officiant because we wanted a heartfelt and personal approach to our small, intimate wedding. Caroline was perfect. She worked wi...
th us on the script and delivered it perfectly on the day. I would 100% recommend Caroline & Amy to anyone.
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My partner and I were married in November 2022. Besides preferring to keep the ceremony short and nontraditional, we were uncertain what we wanted overall. Caroline made us feel so...
at ease from the beginning, helping guide us thru ideas while getting to know our story and personalties. We were comfortable putting the ceremony in her hands and she officiated it beautifully with much love, intention and laughter! It couldn’t have been a more perfect representation of who we are as a couple!
Response from Choose Love Weddings
Katie! It was so special to be a part of your and Manuel's wedding day! Thank you for trus...
ting me to help guide such a beautiful piece of your next step. Truly unforgettable :)
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